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How often do you and your significant other argue?

March 30, 2018
  • Daily
  • A few times a week
  • Once or twice a month
  • Rarely, we’re almost always in agreement
  • Never

Arguments: we’ve all had them, from debating the color of that elusive dress on the internet (was it blue or gold, again?) to deciding whose turn it is to take out the trash. When it comes to relationships, disagreements are par for the course. But just how common are these verbal tango sessions between couples?

“In every good relationship, there’s always a hint of conflict. It’s not about avoiding it, but rather how you navigate through it.” — Dr. Sarah T. Connors, Relationship Therapist.

A Peek at the Numbers:

Let’s face it, sometimes stats are just fun! Did you know? Couples in the USA can be categorized into five groups based on how often they argue:

  1. Daily Dabblers: These are the couples that bicker every day.
  2. Weekly Warriors: They have a tiff a few times a week.
  3. Monthly Mopers: These folks squabble once or twice a month.
  4. Rare Rebels: It’s an infrequent event for them, always being in almost perfect harmony.
  5. Never Naysayers: Arguments? What are those?

Surprisingly, 67% of couples argue about mundane things like leaving the wet towel on the bed or forgetting to replace the toilet paper roll. While only 5% argue about more complex issues, such as finances.

To Argue or Not To Argue:

Arguments might sound like the antithesis of romantic love, but some experts believe they’re essential. Dr. Joshua Klapow, a clinical psychologist, states, “Conflicts can sometimes lead to deeper understanding, better communication, and stronger bonds. The key is not the frequency of disagreements but the way they are handled.”

Of course, if you’re part of the Never Naysayers group, you might be thinking, “What arguments? We’re as harmonious as a choir.” Well, hats off to you! Every relationship is unique.

The Spicy Side of Disagreements:

Disagreements can bring out the passion in relationships. No, not that kind of passion. Get your mind out of the gutter! We’re talking about the passion that demonstrates investment, care, and commitment.

“When two people always agree, one of them is unnecessary.” — Unknown.

Behind the Reasons:

Here are some eyebrow-raising reasons for disagreements:

  • The Hungry Syndrome: According to a University of California study, couples are more likely to have disagreements when they’re hungry. So, that Snickers commercial might be onto something!
  • The Blue Sock Dilemma: 23% of couples have had an argument about mismatched socks. Maybe it’s time to accept that socks have a secret portal they escape to?
  • Temperature Tiffs: Did you know 18% of couples bicker about the thermostat setting? While you’re freezing, they’re in the Bahamas, metaphorically speaking.

Navigating The Disagreement Waters:

For those navigating the turbulent waters of relationship disagreements, take heart in the words of relationship coach, Steven Dziedzic: “Disagreements are opportunities. They’re a chance to see the world through your partner’s eyes and grow closer in the process.”

Here are some quick tips:

  1. Listen Actively: Hear them out, even if you’re convinced they’re wrong about pineapple on pizza.
  2. Stay Calm: Remember, it’s a discussion, not a boxing match.
  3. Compromise: Sometimes, it’s okay to meet halfway. Maybe pineapple on half the pizza?


Whether you’re a Daily Dabbler or a Never Naysayer, one thing’s clear: disagreements are a part of relationships. They can be challenging, but also opportunities for growth, understanding, and occasionally, a good laugh.

Remember, the beauty of a relationship isn’t in its perfection, but in the journey of growth and understanding together. So, the next time you find yourself in a “heated discussion” about whether a hot dog is a sandwich, take a deep breath, have a chuckle, and cherish the wonderful rollercoaster that is love.

Disclaimer: If you’re considering starting an argument over the hot dog being a sandwich, don’t. Some mysteries are better left unsolved.

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