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Is marriage a necessity for two people who are in love?

March 28, 2018
  • Yes. As Beyonce once said, “if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it!
  • It depends on how long they’ve been in love and maybe some other factors
  • No, a marriage might complicate things. To love is enough
  • I have multiple lovers. Polygamy for the win!

There’s an age-old debate, which, dare I say, rivals the chicken or the egg conundrum: Is marriage essential for two people in love? Dive deep with us into this spirited discourse, as we explore the various standpoints of lovers across the USA.

1. Beyoncé’s Take: “If you like it, then you shoulda put a ring on it!”


Let’s start with Queen Bey’s timeless wisdom. For many, popping the question and saying “I do” is a clear way to shout to the world: “Yes, we’re in love and we’re darn serious about it!” A survey showed that a significant number of couples feel that marriage solidifies their commitment to each other.

Think about it. With marriage, you’re literally announcing to your world – your friends, family, that nosy neighbor, and even your exes – that you’ve found your person. It’s not just about the piece of paper; it’s about a celebration, the gathering of loved ones, the unforgettable memories, and yes, the occasional mishap (like Uncle Bob spilling his drink on Aunt Sarah). Plus, let’s be real, who wouldn’t love to groove to Bruno Mars’ “Marry You” as you make that epic walk down the aisle?

2. The Measured Approach: It’s All About Timing and Other Factors

stopwatch in shape of heart

“Love isn’t a stopwatch. It doesn’t care about time.” Sounds like something right out of a Nicholas Sparks novel, right? For some couples, the duration of the relationship, life situations, or external pressures can influence the decision to marry. A survey revealed that couples who had been together for an extended period were more likely to ponder the question, “Is now the right time?”

There are those lovebirds who’ve been serenading each other for a decade and are content without a ring, while others might be considering tying the knot after a whirlwind summer romance a la Sandy and Danny from Grease.

3. Keeping Things Simple: When Love is Enough

couple drinking tea looking and the town from the roof

Let’s venture into the romantic world of bohemians and free spirits where love is a boundless ocean, and marriage, perhaps, an unnecessary boat. A study found that a growing number of couples in the USA believe that their love for each other is more than enough.

It’s like the classic romantic film The Notebook. Allie and Noah had their share of obstacles, but their love was unwavering. For some, love isn’t about the glitz and glamour of a wedding but rather the simple, everyday moments: a shared giggle, breakfast in bed, or dancing in the rain.

4. Polygamy’s Comeback: Love Knows No Bounds

woman dancing with three men in the outside concert

Now, here’s a fun twist! Not everyone has a one-size-fits-all approach to love. While it might seem like a plot from a risqué Hollywood drama, polygamy has its advocates. The idea is simple: Why limit love to just one when the heart can hold affection for many?

Though polygamy might not be mainstream, it’s a reminder of the vast spectrum of human emotions and the diverse ways in which love manifests. After all, love is a kaleidoscope, with each turn revealing a new pattern.

In Conclusion

Love, like a classic American pie, has various flavors and forms. Whether you’re a cherry pie lover waiting for that ring, an apple pie enthusiast taking their sweet time, a blueberry aficionado believing in the power of love alone, or a mixed fruit pie aficionado with a heart big enough for many, it’s all about finding what feels right for you.

So, America, where do you stand on the grand spectrum of love and marriage? Whatever you choose, always remember to sprinkle a dash of humor, a pinch of understanding, and a whole lot of love!

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